How to Lead with Emotional Intelligence

Bruce Laishley
3 min readApr 7, 2022

The best leaders can take charge in any situation, whether delivering lousy news or motivating the team. We all know that one of the essential traits of a good leader is emotional intelligence. This article will explore ways to lead with emotional intelligence and inspire followers.

1) Be Authentic

Good leaders are authentic. They do not try to act like someone else; they embrace their personality and let that shine through their interactions with others. When trying to imitate another person’s style, it is easy for your followers to see right through this charade. By being yourself, people can trust you and know that you are doing what is best for them.

2) Be a Good Listener

Some leaders make the mistake of thinking that they can lead others by always imposing their will. However, good leaders know how to listen to others and incorporate other people’s ideas into their vision. To be an effective leader, you must first understand what your followers want from you and then use this information to help motivate them. Strong leaders are also good listeners, not just to their followers but also to other people in the workplace, such as colleagues and subordinates. Listening shows that you care about what others have to say, which can go a long way towards building trust with your team members.

3) Be a Role Model

A good leader is someone who others want to emulate. To be an effective role model, you must first have the qualities that you wish for your followers to possess and then display those characteristics in your everyday behavior. A positive role model sets the tone for other people on your team and makes them more motivated to succeed.

4) Show Gratitude

People are more likely to follow someone they feel is grateful for having them on the team. This is why leaders should always show their gratitude when others go above and beyond. By being thankful, you both let people know how much you value their contributions and inspire them to work harder in the future.

5) Admit When You Are Wrong

One of the worst things a leader can do is hide when they make mistakes. This often leads people on your team to question whether or not you should be trusted with another essential task. You are a good leader by admitting when you are wrong and demonstrating how you will address this problem to prevent it from happening again.

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Bruce Laishley

For over 50 years, Bruce Laishley has been a Punta Gorda, FL staple and pillar of his community. To learn more about Bruce, visit brucelaishley.net.